The Gathering

I sat among them as i was feeding my daughter in my arms, four women surrounding me and i was the fifth sitting in a circle as if preforming some ancient ritual. I listened to their conversations trying hard to show some interest when I’m not, so materialistic, so fake, they allowed themselves to be blinded from the truth. Nothing lasts forever, not the diamonds that decorated theirs hands nor the big mansions that hid tales of misery and loneliness, all an illusion that these women created each competing with the other. Their castles filled with untouched dusted treasures that lost their sparkle in time, no warmth to be felt nor love.

They looked at me with mocking eyes judging my appearance I could sense their anger for refusing the life they chose, I may not wear diamonds nor live in a mansion but i am content with myself of what I left behind and what I have become. I looked down at my daughter her tiny hand holding my finger needing the warmth of her mother, my heart melted at her smile indeed I have all what I ever wanted, the unconditional love that these women lacked.

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Kuwait: A Democracy or a Police State?

I’m not going to retell the story of the 2 Kuwaiti journalist who were kidnapped and detained because it has been mentioned by Kuwaiti bloggers numerous times, here are some of these sites:
State Security Arrest, Assault Blogger And Journalist
Tortured and Detained
HARASSED AND ATTACKED BY SECRET POLICE IN KUWAIT.

My thoughts:

Of course i condemn such actions that are against human rights and freedom of expression but what amazes me is the reaction of “some” Kuwaitis commentators who were shocked at this news! Come on people did you actually believe that Kuwait was really a democratic state? I swear when ever I hear that phrase “we live in a democratic country” or “Kuwait is better then most Arab countries” and so on I just want to scream. No, the truth is Kuwait has always been a police state but we never hear of how many people that were tortured UNLESS their families are well-known/popular. I have known this for years and personally knew people who went through such horrendous experiences.

The news is not shocking to me at all especially with the way Kuwait is heading towards to. However i do applaud the number of Kuwaitis who expressed their opinions against such actions, the campaign that they have started makes me proud to be a Kuwaiti. Indeed the future of Kuwait is in the hands of it’s youth only then we might see a democratic Kuwait.


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What Movie Is Your Love Life Like?

Your Love Life is Like The Princess Bride

“Since the invention of the kiss, there have only been five kisses that were rated the most passionate, the most pure. This one left them all behind.”

For you, love is like a fairy tale - albeit a fairly twisted one.
You believe romance is all about loyalty, fate, and a good big of goofy fun.

Your love style: Idealistic yet quirky

Your Hollywood Ending Will Be: Perfectly romantic

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Questions

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Life is full questions and doubts; many of these questions are left unanswered. They are forever floating and drifting in our minds, whispering and asking. Questions that scars your brain from endless thinking. That drives you mad without harming your soul, that makes you wonder is it me or them, that makes you doubt if this world is real or an illusion, that makes you feel you are lost in the ruins of your mind, that blinds your sight when you see the truth staring back at you, that makes you search for the one thing you could never grasp, that makes your pain dance on a pleasurable tune echoing from the depths of your heart, that causes you to scream in a silent crowded room yet still you are not heard.

Questions…Who are you? I do not mean the name your parents gave you when you were born on this wretched earth. No, who are you really? Who is behind that fake mask? Can you answer? Do you have the courage? The honesty? Who are you…..

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Mobile Tag

Taken from Pearls post, here goes:

1. Grab your phone: Done.

2. What kind is your phone: Nokia N70.

3. Who’s the first name that comes up under letter M: Maha.

4. Last person you called: Friend.

5. Last missed call: Aunt Ghaneema.

6. 2nd name that comes up under letter D: Dad.

7. Speed dial 2: None.

8. 3rd name that comes up under J: Jabir.

9. Last received call: Shara.

10. Speed dial 4: None.

11. What does your banner say: No banner.

12. Number of text msgs: 60

13. Background: Lion-O of Thundercats :oops:

14. Speed dial 1: None.

15. 5th sms says:

But me and Lion-O are not getting along!

16. First name that comes up under B: Bilal.

17. How many bars of signal do you have: 7.

18. Last text msg from: Shara.

19. Name all the persons you have text msgs from:

    Shara
    Amal
    Sister
    Dad
    Hanoof
    Few Cousins
    Ala’a

20. 9th person on recent calls: Mom.

21. 6th msg say:

Can I change ur pic now 2 u and Ali? PLEASE!

22. First name in phonebook: Abdulla.

23. Last name in phonebook: Yesra.

24. Do you have a camera phone: Yes.

25. Last name under G: None.

26. Last text msg say:

Are u sending me games?

27. Most text msgs sent to: Dad, and Shara.

28: Ring tone: Evening Falls by Enya.

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Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix

Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix was a major disappointment. In fact in my opinion it was worse than the rest of the series. The movie was slow, no plot, the dialogue was boring and some scenes were left unexplained. For example we knew why Harry and Luna saw the thestrals and the rest couldn’t then suddenly in another scene comes out were Hermione, Ginny and Ron riding on the thestrals heading towards London without mentioning how they were able to do that :!: Another unexplained example was the prophecy and what it meant, anyone who haven’t read the book would be very confused. Overall the movie doesn’t come close to the book, a lot of details were missing, they totally butchered it :mad:


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Rating: ★☆☆☆☆

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More update on Katherine Phillips

This is the latest letter Ms Katherine Phillips wrote:

Dear Barbara,

I am out of the GCC. Still worried about my safety. I met with a Human Rights Group in Kuwait last Wednesday. They wanted to help me and told me that they planned to write to the Prime Minister of Kuwait. That’s pretty high up in the political sphere. The first Minister contacted to my knowledge was the Minister of the Interior, then the Minister of Foreign Affairs, then the PM. I just work for a school and it reached these heights? That’s scary. I think to be released all it would have taken was a phone call from one of these men, but on Saturday I was told there wasn’t any hope. I think that would scare just about anyone. I know that these men were personally approached about my situation - not just in writing.

I did nothing wrong; I just made the wrong person angry. So, what do you think the political situation is for any teacher in Kuwait ?

I’m not sure how I got out of the country. I was notified by text message that the travel ban was lifted but I don’t know how long the ban was lifted. I left immediately. This entire situation is surreal. I’m just an ordinary person and I don’t know how this situation reached this level.

You and your organization mean the world to me. My friend Paula contacted you initially which was the best help, ray of hope, I have received. Don’t let others forget about me. With the timing of this ban (summer and everyone out of Kuwait ) and the parents’ connections, without you I would have been doomed.

I hope that this message is coherent enough - I’m a wreck.

God bless you. I feel the love and it’s sent back to you!

Katherine Phillips

Source: The International Schools Review

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Being a Kuwaiti

First I’d like to make it clear that personal attacks, insults or flaming doesn’t bother me at all, in fact it’s amusing because i hit a nerve. That being said any information i post about Kuwait is public information taken from Kuwaiti newspapers or other forms of media so getting angry at me doesn’t make sense at all.

I, like many other Kuwaiti bloggers when addressing flaws in our country is by in no means being “hateful” or “non patriotic” on the contrary, how could we as citizens better our country if we don’t discuss these problems? Personally i want to see a better Kuwait, a Kuwait free of corruption, human trafficking, and injustice. I know things don’t happen over night and Kuwait is not the only country with problems but one can only hope right?

Not only do i talk about corruption in Kuwait but also the achievements, i think it’s beyond great that women finally gained their political rights by voting and entering elections, i applaud our government for trying to solve the Bedoon (undocumented persons, or residents of the country who don’t hold citizenship because the government doesn’t recognize them) problem, and most of all establishing protection laws for foreign workers who are abused by their employers.

The only thing that annoys me is how some Kuwaitis immediately assume you’re a lier and not a true citizen because of your views. Now in my personal opinion these people are delusional. Why? because they live in their delusional world fooling themselves that Kuwait is a full democratic country (yeah right!) and don’t want to acknowledge any problems related to politics and society fear of tarnishing the country’s image. I find this funny because like i said before all news is public and international, for example because Kuwait Is black listed for human trafficking the National Family Security Association forum was created to protect both workers and Kuwaiti families from domestic crimes and abuse. If people are not aware of these issues how could it be solved then? Ignoring the problems doesn’t mean they don’t exist nor would it fade away HOWEVER addressing them and taking a stand for change puts Kuwait in a better situation internationally.

I say to those delusional people instead of going around insulting others for their views to grow up and make a change, I’m not saying I’m perfect i have my mistakes and would apologize if proven wrong. Want to debate? fine I’m cool with that but writing a comment that contains 90% insults and doesn’t contribute to the debate is just a waste of time.
I’ve had only 1 person threatening me (i admit i was literally in tears from laughing) and i say to him/her come and get me! :P

so that’s it i have nothing to say about this subject, wanna insult me more? go ahead i love the drama :)

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5. Corruption Monitor (Arabic and English).

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Update on Detained American Teacher

Good news! I just read a statement from the Bayan Bilingual School that the case against Ms Katherine Phillips has been resolved :D
Statement below:

Due to the efforts of BBS management and the broader BBS community in conjunction with expert Kuwaiti legal counsel, the situation regarding our Deputy Middle School Principal has been resolved.

We would like to thank every member of the Kuwait community and the parents of BBS students who have supported BBS throughout this process, and special thanks to the Kuwait Human Rights Society for their extraordinary support and empathy during this situation.

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Death in the Family

I was so happy and looking forward to see my dad but he called just before going to the airport and told me about Uncle Essa’s death. I knew he was in the hospital for the past few days and at 75 years old i had a feeling he wouldn’t last for long. I wanted to call my aunt but decided to wait at least a day because i know how things are over there now, rest in peace Uncle Essa.

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American Teacher Detained in Kuwait!

This letter was emailed to me by a friend of mine which in my personal opinion is very disturbing, the letter originally was posted in the International Schools Review web page. I can’t help but feel more disgusted towards my country and people wonder why i’m always angry when it comes to Kuwaiti politics and society!

FROM: Katherine Phillips, Al-Bayan Bilingual School Middle School Deputy Principal, Kuwait
US PASSPORT NUMBER: xxxxx9279 - (contact ISR if needed)
TO: Whom It May Concern
DATE: June 21, 2007
RE: Detained in Kuwait/In Fear for My Safety

I am a Middle School Vice-Principal at Al-Bayan Bilingual School in Kuwait. I have been employed in Kuwait for 6 years at the same school. One of my primary responsibilities is student discipline. On March 8, 2006, three boys in grade 5 were suspended for fighting. I interviewed the boys, met with my principal and followed normal procedure. There is no stigma here regarding suspension. Students spend the day in the office where they study, are visited by teachers, and are taken to the canteen, etc. It’s a normal consequence for fighting; all students are aware of this and the procedure is clearly defined in our Parent Handbook.

In the afternoon of March 8th, I received a phone call from one of the boys’ fathers, Mr. Fawaz Khalid Al Marzouq, who is a powerful man in Kuwait. He called to inform me that this situation was “personal,” that he is “friends with the emir” and that he planned to “destroy” me. This conversation, which last about 9 minutes, was littered with profanities and threats.

On March 11, 2006, the parents met with me, my principal and our director, Dr. Brian McCauley, to discuss the suspension. The father requested that if there was an issue involving his child that I would call him immediately.

On April 27, 2006, I was requested to write a synopsis of events and to visit the Ministry of Education to answer questions regarding the suspension, describe the room in which the boys spent the school day and provide a copy of our handbook.

In June 2006, the father transferred his children to a different private school in Kuwait. Also, we received notification from the Ministry of Education that in-school suspensions were no longer to be applied; instead, parents must be contacted to take their children home.

In February 2007, I learned that a case had been filed against me at the Jabriya Police Department in Kuwait; the charge was “illegal detainment” of his son on March 8, 2006. I answered questions in my director’s presence and the Consul from the US Embassy, Mr. Sonny Busa. My lawyer was also present. The police did not suggest that there was any reason for me to be concerned as all of the questions were answered to the apparent satisfaction.

On June 13, 2007, I was at the Kuwait International Airport intending to fly to Bahrain. I was stopped at immigration where I was informed that there was a case against me, pending further investigation and that a travel ban had been placed on me. I had not been informed. My lawyer had not been informed. This travel ban was placed upon me
15 months after the boy was suspended. The parent said that he would make this personal and this seems to be what he is intent upon doing.

On Saturday, June 16, 2007, I visited the American Embassy where I met with the Vice Consul, Mr. Jared Caplan, who informed me that he sympathized but could do nothing to lift the travel ban. He suggested that I get an older Kuwaiti man to appeal to Mr. Marzouq. I was told on Wednesday that my file would be transferred to another agency for review so the ban could be lifted. Five working days later, the whereabouts of my file are uncertain. I have been told that my file is in 2 different places; this seems to be a delay tactic. Why? Because I angered an influential Kuwaiti national who is at the top of the social register both locally and at the US Embassy?

On I visited the office of a police inspector named Falah Al Otaibi, whose office is in Salmiya. He is a police official who was to evaluate my file and determine if I could leave or not. He stated that he didn’t have my file. I visited him on June 17th and 18th. On June 18th, not five minutes after I left his office with my director, the Business Officer of my school and another school representative, I called Mr. Jared Caplan, Vice-Consul at the US Embassy to gain his insight into the situation and to see if any progress had been made to help me leave. He was completely aware of my visit to Mr. Al Otaibi’s office and instructed that I not return as it “interfered.”

Several Kuwaiti families are aware of my situation but they are not in a position to help or they don’t want to get involved. They have ALL said that I should go to my embassy because my embassy can help me. The fact that the embassy can’t seems shocking to everyone. Many people also question why this accusation from Mr. Marzouk is placed solely on me – not the school, not the principal, not the director of school. I feel that I am being used as an example because I am a single, American woman and he wants to show others that he can do what he said which is to “destroy” me.

Yesterday, June 20, 2007, I received a paper from Mr. Al Otaibi’s office in Salmiya which lifted the travel ban. This waiver had been granted by the Kuwait Minister of the Interior. Not long after the Minister released me, he reverted his decision at the request of the Marzouq family or his representatives. I went to the airport last night, only to learn that I couldn’t leave.

I am in fear for my safety. If the Embassy can’t help me, then who can? I contacted the FBI in Riyad, Saudi Arabia yesterday and talked to “Mike” who couldn’t give me his last name. He was non-committal but did suggest that he thought the embassy should be able to get me out.

Mr. Sonny Busa has informed me that they are “working on it.” That seems a little vague and I am not sure if the US Embassy completely realizes the level of danger that I feel that I am in. Why does Mr. Marzouq want me in Kuwait during the summer when no one from my school will be in country to offer their support? To make me feel vulnerable? He is well-connect and his friends are supporting his mission to damage me in any way that he can. What’s next?

I do not feel safe. I am not safe. I need someone from the US to acknowledge the urgency of my situation and coordinate my release. I committed no crime. I am simply the victim of “wasta” which roughly translates into “influence/pressure” at a high level.

My mobile phone number is: 965-6298331

Fawaz Khalid Al Marzouq: Another Kuwaiti fucktard who thinks he’s all high and mighty.

UPDATE: I just emailed this story to Oprah Winfrey maybe she could do something to help this poor woman.

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Kuwait added to slavery blacklist (Not surprising at all!)

Key U.S. allies added to slavery blacklist Bahrain, Kuwait, Oman and Qatar are among seven nations demoted in a State Department report on human trafficking.
By Matthew Lee The Associated Press

Washington - The Bush administration on Tuesday added seven nations, including several key U.S. allies in the Middle East, to its human trafficking blacklist for failing to halt what it called the scourge of “modern-day slavery.”

Countries on the list are subject to sanctions for not doing enough to stop the yearly flow of roughly 800,000 people, 80 percent of them female and up to half of them children, across international borders for the sex trade and other forms of forced and indentured labor.

Among U.S. friends getting a failing grade were Bahrain, Kuwait, Oman and Qatar, which along with Algeria, Equatorial Guinea and Malaysia joined for the first time such perennial offenders as Myanmar, Cuba, Iran, North Korea and Syria in the State Department’s annual “Trafficking in Persons Report.”

Sixteen states in all - four more than in 2006 - were given so-called Tier 3 status in the 236-page survey of global efforts to combat trafficking in people, many of whom are seeking to escape poverty in Eastern Europe and South and Southeast Asia and are sold into the commercial sex trade or manual labor or are mistreated as domestics.

Despite the additions, Secretary of State Condoleezza Rice said “more and more countries are coming to see human trafficking for what it is - a modern- day form of slavery that devastates families and communities around the world.”

Countries with Tier 3 ranking “do not fully comply with the minimum standards (to fight trafficking) and are not making significant efforts to do so,” which makes them eligible for U.S. economic sanctions.

Three countries that had been placed on Tier 3 in 2006 - Belize, Laos and Zimbabwe - were promoted to Tier 2 this year for improving their records, according to the report. Tier 2 countries are those that do not fully comply with minimum standards but are making significant efforts to do so.

The recognition is rare U.S. praise for Zimbabwe, long singled out by Washington for harsh criticism on its overall human rights record, a point noted by Rice’s point man on the trafficking issue, Mark Lagon.

The seven newcomers to Tier 3 were all demoted from “Tier 2 watchlist” status, which now covers 32 countries, including India, Mexico and Russia, that have been cited for poor anti- trafficking records for numerous consecutive years.

Bahrain, the Persian Gulf home to the U.S. Fifth Fleet, was cited for failing to crack down on human traffickers who are bringing in men, women and children for forced labor or commercial sex work, the report says.

Malaysia made its first appearance on “Tier 3″ for its failure to protect and identify victims of trafficking, many of them Indonesian domestics.

Source: The Denver Post.

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Birthday Weekend: The Party

It was a busy day today we got up early in the morning to prepare for the party our friends were coming over at 2pm, I’m glad Shara and her sister Lovely were here to help me if it weren’t for them i wouldn’t have done all this. Shara did an excellent job in decorating the place, we went with Ali’s favorite cartoon theme, The Backyardigans the balloons, cups and plates were so cute, my husband too did a great with the barbecuing the food was delicious. This has been the best weekend ever! i only wished mom and dad were here i know how much they miss Ali and how hard not to be there for their first grandson’s birthday, hopefully dad is coming this July and mom in August i can’t wait to see them, now the pics :)


I love this picture they all look so cute and happy, left to right: Our friend Henry, Lovely, Geanne and Madeline (Henry’s beautiful daughters) and Ali.

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The cake.

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Birthday Boy having fun.

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Birthday Weekend: Theme Park

Around 2 pm we were off to Six Flags Great Adventure. We did the Safari first and Ali loved watching the animals roaming free, he was so excited that he banged his head on the window (didn’t even cry). The Safari ride took about an hour and although we LOVED it we had to suffer because my son pooped and we couldn’t stop to change his diaper LOL


Ali fascinated

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Birthday Weekend: HAPPY 1st BIRTHDAY!

I can’t believe today is my son’s first birthday!We decided to celebrate all weekend so I got a small birthday cake for Ali. My friend Shara and her sister, Lovely were there and boy did we have fun, let’s just say our faces were decorated with cake :D


Ali covered in cake.

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My mom back home also made a birthday party with her friends and this is the awesome cake she ordered i absolutely love it!

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